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Complex Child Custody Cases

If you’re going through a divorce and minor children are involved, you are probably hoping for a simple, straightforward custody arrangement. Unfortunately, not all divorces work out this way.

In some cases, one parent wants to relocate, there is a history of neglect or abuse, or both parents are failing to come to an agreement. No matter what the issue is, custody disputes can become complex very quickly. It’s always a good idea to work with an attorney when you’re going through a divorce or involved in a child custody dispute.

However, if that dispute turns complicated, hiring an experienced attorney becomes absolutely vital. At the Law Office of Amy L. Gervich, we have years of experience helping parents like you navigate challenging custody cases.

What Exactly Is a Complex Custody Case?

There are many ways for a child custody case to become complicated. Generally, though, complex custody cases are those where some kind of roadblock or major challenge gets in the way of a quick and peaceful resolution. Here’s a look at some of those roadblocks and how our team might be able to help.

One Parent Wants to Move

After going through a divorce, it’s not unheard of to want to get a fresh start somewhere else. However, when shared custody is involved, this can cause some issues.
If you want to move out of state with the child, you should first consult with the other parent. If the other parent agrees, you can make the move, although you will likely have to modify your child custody or visitation plan.
However, if the other parent disagrees, you will need to petition the court for permission to move. It’s difficult to predict whether the court will grant permission or not — it will generally look at the child’s best interests and consider how a move will impact their relationship with the other parent.
For instance, suppose that the child is close with the other parent, and you want to move across the country. In this case, the court might determine that the move would be too damaging to the child’s relationship with the other parent.
Whether you are the relocating parent or the parent opposed to the move, we can help. Our team can assist by putting together a petition that the court is more likely to approve. If you don’t want the other parent to move out of state, we can make a strong argument showing why the move would be detrimental to your child.

The Parents Just Can’t Agree

This is unfortunately one of the most common complications in a child custody dispute. Often, one parent refuses to cooperate out of spite, or the relationship between the two parents is so acrimonious that they cannot calmly discuss the situation.
There are a few different ways to handle a situation like this. One is to simply let the court make all decisions. This option tends to be expensive and time-consuming because it involves so much litigation.
One alternative solution is to allow your and your spouse’s attorneys to oversee most of the negotiations. Taking this route can be beneficial because it minimizes the time you have to spend with your spouse.
Another alternative is to use mediation. This process does require the spouses to interact. But because they discuss custody issues in the presence of a third-party mediator, it may help to cool tensions a bit.
Our team has worked with many couples who had trouble communicating. As such, we are prepared to suggest possible ways to help you reach a resolution in your child custody case.

A Parent Is Deployed or May Be Deployed

It’s possible to reach a custody agreement and create a custody plan if you or the child’s other parent is an active-duty member of the military. Often, when you relocate temporarily for military service, you cannot bring your child along.
Fortunately, being in the military doesn’t mean you cannot have custody. However, the court will likely want to have a temporary custody plan in place in case you are deployed. Our team has helped couples develop these kinds of temporary custody plans — if need be, we can help you develop one, too.

The Child or Parent Has a Chronic Health Condition

Chronic health issues — whether yours or your child’s — can make daily life significantly more difficult. They also might make it challenging to come to an easy resolution of your child custody dispute.
If you as a parent have a chronic health concern, it can be challenging to physically or mentally keep up with your children. Additionally, your medical bills can be substantial, impacting your finances enough that you have difficulty providing for your child’s needs.
There are also a number of potential issues if it’s your child with the chronic health issue. For instance, you may need to make expensive modifications to keep your home accessible for them. Additionally, both parents must be able to advocate for the child in a medical setting and understand how to manage their medication.

There’s a History of Neglect or Abuse

This factor can have a substantial impact on your custody case. In nearly every instance, if one of the parents has a history of child abuse, they will almost never be granted custody or visitation.

The court generally tries to preserve the ability of each parent to build a relationship with the child. However, it will always place ultimate importance on the child’s best interests.
If a parent has a history of domestic violence against the child, the other parent, or both, they also will likely not receive custody or visitation. However, if the parent committed a domestic-violence-related offense many years ago, the court may determine that they no longer pose a threat to the child or the other parent.

In very limited circumstances, the Missouri family court system can terminate the parental rights of one or both parents. This will generally only happen if it is clearly evident that a parent is unfit to care for the child. These are some common examples:

  • Severe or prolonged child abuse

  • Sexual abuse of the child

  • Having parental rights terminated for another child

  • Abuse or neglect of other children

  • Abandoning the child

  • Not maintaining contact with (or failing to support) the child

  • Having a long-term mental illness that makes you unable to parent

  • Having a long-term problem with alcohol or drugs that makes you unable to parent

Essentially, the court has a fair bit of discretion when it comes to these kinds of cases. That’s why it’s essential to have an attorney who can advocate for you or your child.

Your Guide Through Complex Custody Cases

Your child custody battle may be the most stressful and emotionally challenging experience you’ve faced in your life. The team at the Law Office of Amy L. Gervich understands the sensitive nature of child custody cases.

While we’re fighting aggressively for your best interests and those of your child, we’ll offer you support and guidance through the entire process. Whether you’re preparing for a custody dispute or you’re already in one, you need an attorney as soon as possible. Call us at 314-725-7901 or reach out online to set up a free consultation. Let us know how we can help.